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How Self-Integrity and Self-Discipline Help You Keep Your Writing Commitments
Nina Amir -- Nonfiction Book Coach Nina Amir -- Nonfiction Book Coach
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Dateline: Los Gatos, CA
Wednesday, June 7, 2023


how self-discipline and self-integrity help you write consistently

Look at your life, and you’ll see your commitments. For example, you might be committed to watching the news on TV for an hour every night, writing a blog post every week, exercising daily, working on your book project for an hour every day, eating chocolate when you feel stressed, drinking 16 ounces of water when you wake up, being angry, or staying in your comfort zone. And you’re likely self-integral and self-disciplined about keeping those commitments.

Self-integrity, which involves keeping your promises (commitments) to yourself, increases with discipline. Discipline, a strategy used to control or force a specific behavior—like keeping a promise to yourself, results in a higher level of self-integrity. And both self-integrity and self-discipline lead to the ability to keep your commitments—like the ones you make to yourself related to becoming a successful writer and author.

Think of it like a process:

  1. Make a commitment to yourself.
  2. Discipline yourself to follow through on that promise to yourself.
  3. Keep your commitment.

Are You Committed?

Do you say you are committed to writing, yet you don’t write consistently? For instance, maybe you promised yourself to write for two hours first thing in the morning (after you make coffee). Yet, you don’t keep that promise, and instead, you spend that time sipping hot brew and reading email, checking social media, and placing Amazon orders, effectively losing the time you allotted for writing.

It would be easy to deduce that you lack commitment, and that could be true. If you think you “should” write daily or your writing coach told you to do so (and you don’t), you probably aren’t as committed as you say.

On the other hand, you might not keep your commitment because you need higher levels of self-integrity and self-discipline. For example, you want to get published and know a consistent writing practice will get you to that goal, but you must train yourself to follow through and take action consistently.

So, first, decide if you are genuinely committed. Do you want to keep your promise to yourself? If so, it’s time to develop more self-discipline and self-integrity.

Self-Integrity and Self-Discipline Help Keep Commitments

Let’s use me as an example. I am committed to finding a new agent and getting my current work-in-progress out into the world and, therefore, promise myself to work on the manuscript, proposal, and query daily so I can start pitching. But unfortunately, I’m committed to this activity but not always self-integral or self-disciplined. So sometimes I tell myself I’ll work on the book project but don’t.

It’s easy to put my deadlines first. After all, I publish blog posts on a schedule without fail. In this arena, I have lots of self-discipline and I am self-integral. The same goes for activities related to my membership programs, like Nonfiction Writers’ University and the Inspired Creator Community. Of course, sometimes life just gets in the way. (I’m sure you have experienced that.)

So, I’ve worked on raising my level of self-integrity. I decided to BE someone who has self-integrity, especially around writing and publishing. As a result, I work on my book project consistently each week, thus keeping my promise to myself.

That said, doing so takes self-discipline. For example, I have had to train myself to write or work on my proposal immediately after I walk the dog. That meant pushing exercise to after I do so. And if, for some reason, I don’t write in the morning, I do it later in the day—even if it’s for only 30 minutes. I even use a habit tracker to help me visualize my writing “streak.”

If I don’t keep my commitment, I make a new plan. For example, I write on a day I hadn’t scheduled time for it (even on the weekend). .

With self-integrity and self-discipline, I keep my commitment and write or work on some aspect of my book project five days weekly. And after a while, doing so becomes habitual. Then, I don’t need to worry about integrity or discipline. I am being someone who has both.

How to Develop Commitment

A delicate interplay exists between commitment, self-integrity, and self-discipline. So often, we don’t realize how we unconsciously commit to things and develop self-integrity and discipline around them—even when the actions don’t serve our highest good. (I bet you didn’t have to work hard to commit to having coffee every morning, right?)

Again, look at your life and what you say you’re committed to doing. For example, suppose you are committed to watching TV every night. In that case, you’re self-integral and self-disciplined about that commitment, whether you realize it or not. Every day you’ll recommit—thinking about what you’ll watch and planning how to do so. You don’t consciously think, “I promise myself that I’m going to watch TV tonight.” But you have, and you keep that promise.

Plus, you’re going to be disciplined about that TV-time commitment. You might consciously tell yourself, “I have to finish my work, eat dinner, and clean up by 8 p.m. because that is when I begin watching TV.” And you do just that…every night.

That type of commitment seems to take almost no effort or thought because you are 100 percent committed. Therefore, you don’t have to increase your self-integrity or self-discipline.

Other commitments, not so much. Don’t believe me? List all the things you say you are committed to but haven’t managed to do consistently. These commitments require more self-integrity and self-discipline.

How Commitment Helps Achieve Your Writing and Publishing Goals

You will keep your writing and publishing promises to yourself when you have commitment, self-integrity, and self-discipline. And you’ll move quickly toward goal achievement.

Let’s say you’re committed to writing a book. To keep that promise to yourself, you decide to be self-integral. You say, “I always keep my promises to myself.”

Then, you set smaller goals, like writing five days per week or producing 2,000 words per week. To achieve these goals, you decide, “I am disciplined.”

You put writing dates on your calendar and keep them—because you have decided to be both self-integral and self-disciplined. You have chosen to develop these characteristics. Maybe you level up both these traits by treating these writing dates like doctor’s appointments that can’t be missed without penalty; thus, you pay a friend $20 every time you miss your “appointment.”

Or you simply decide that you are now a self-integral and self-disciplined person—you choose that identity. Then, your habits and mindsets follow suit, allowing you to write consistently. Finally, you do what you commit to because you are that type of person.

The Positive Side of Being Disciplined

For some people, “discipline” has a negative connotation. It seems like a harsh word or way to approach keeping commitments to yourself (or anyone else). You might think discipline is restrictive and makes you feel trapped or like someone judged as “bad.”

However, the word also can have a positive connotation. After all, it is a good thing when you positively use discipline. For instance, using discipline to help you lose weight and live longer is also good. The same is true if you employ discipline to start your new business, stay connected to your family or friends, or make meditation a habit—or write and publish a book, blog, or article.

In fact, discipline should make you feel good about yourself. When you’re self-disciplined, you allow yourself to become self-integral. Ultimately, keeping promises to yourself feels pretty great. Why? Because you’ve followed through on your commitment.

Imagine you committed to writing for one  hour every day for six months. You promised yourself you would do it and kept that promise by being disciplined about scheduling time for writing and showing up to write on that schedule daily.

At the six-month marker, how would you feel about yourself? Pretty great, right? Of course. And you’d have a lot of written words, too.

The Spiritual Side of Commitment

Most people would lump learning to be self-integral, self-disciplined, or committed into a personal growth bucket. However, these traits also have a spiritual growth element.

Often you commit to things about which you feel passionate or interested. Or you commit to doing something you feel called to do or that is meaningful or purposeful for you, such as starting a blog, publishing a book, or writing for publication.

A sense of passion, interest, calling, meaning, interest, or purpose are the ways your soul tells you something is aligned for you. So, if you are excited about committing to your writing career, see that as spiritual guidance.

Then, developing self-integrity and self-discipline become spiritual practices to help you keep your spiritually guided commitments. And they help you fulfill your spiritual and human potential.

If you don’t develop self-integrity and discipline to keep your commitment, you will continue doing what’s comfortable. You won’t stretch yourself, and only through stretching do you grow.

Commit to Fulfilling Your Potential

Your soul came into your body in this lifetime to achieve its spiritual and human potential. You accomplish that by developing commitment. And you fulfill your purpose by committing to writing, since you likely feel drawn to expressing in that manner.

As you follow through on your soul-inspired commitment to write and publish by developing self-integrity and self-discipline, you move toward achieving your potential as a writer. So, commit with an appreciation for what you’re doing and achieving and who you are becoming.

Do you keep your writing commitments? Tell me in a comment below. And please share this post with a friend or on social media.Tell me in a comment below.

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Nina Amir, the bestselling author of How to Blog a Book and The Author Training Manual, is a speaker, a blogger, and an author, book, blog-to-book, and high-performance coach. Known as the Inspiration to Creation Coach, she helps creative people combine their passion and purpose so they move from idea to inspired action and positively and meaningfully impact the world as writers, bloggers, authorpreneurs, and blogpreneurs. Some of Nina’s clients have sold 300,000+ copies of their books, landed deals with major publishing houses and created thriving businesses around their books. She is the founder of National Nonfiction Writing Month, National Book Blogging Month, and the Nonfiction Writers’ University. As a hybrid author she has published 19 books and had as many as four books on the Amazon Top 100 list at the same time. Her most recent book is called Creative Visualization for Writers, and tomorrow her 19th book will be released, The Write Nonfiction NOW! Guide to Creativity and Flow. Find all her books at booksbyninaamir.com or find out more about her at ninaamir.com.

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