Have you ever met someone who was lucky in love? In the nearly two decades I’ve been a dating and relationship coach, I’ve met hundreds of them. And I’ll tell you their secret…they are all people who believe in true love.

Do you believe love is in the stars for you? Do you deeply believe in true love?

I truly hope so because people who believe in true love are more likely to find it (and keep it, too).

If you’re on the fence about true love or completely skeptical about it, here are 5 reasons you might want to consider believing in it.

1. Romance is real.

   I bet you know someone you consider to hopelessly romantic and motivated to marry. Many of my clients are.

   I remember Rick. He never doubted there was a love connection somewhere out there for him.

   He went on many dates and had to endure several rejections from women he pursued. He planned wonderful dates and tried to create romantic experiences for them. Yet not every woman was open to his efforts at wooing her!

   His romantic nature kept him hopefully engaged in continuing to date. He loved creating romantic experiences. He just needed to find a woman who appreciated him and had the same goals as he did!

   Eventually, he did find the perfect woman and they’re now married.

2. Resilience comes more easily.

   
   To continue a little more with Rick’s story, he never gave up. He kept on going online to meet women to date.

   After each and every rejection or the “You’re a nice guy, but…” talk, he dusted himself off and got back out there again.

   Dating takes resilience. And the more opportunities you give yourself, the better the chances are you’ll find that special person.

   People who believe in true love do prevail because they find it easier to be persistent in their pursuit of love.

3. Love is possible.

   
   I remember when I was dating and not finding the kind of guy I was looking for.

   I created a vision board that depicted me finding my soulmate. It helped me to stay focused on what I wanted for myself.

   This kind of structure can keep you focused on what you truly want and on the right path to finding it. Seeing and believing that love is possible for you go hand-in-hand.

   What really makes the difference is the ability to see that finding true love is possible for you — even inevitable. After all, having a vision of what you want is the first step to finding it.

4. Having faith that you’re going to find true love comes easier too.

   Whether you’re religious, spiritual, or just steadfast, it bodes well if you have faith that you’ll find true love.

   Faith goes deeper than just believing for people who believe in true love.

   Faith is knowing in your gut that you’re meant to have a loving partner in your life. It’s knowing there’s someone out there who completes you.

   The people who have this kind of faith, attract others who also believe love will happen for them. It’s a recognition – that you’re meant to be together.

   And love is a leap of faith. So those who have faith are people who believe in true love fully and absolutely. They know that they will find love.

5. The search is easier.

   
   People who believe in true love don’t sit back and wait for things to happen. They’re proactive.

   They take every opportunity to meet their one and only. They leave no stone unturned.

   They may approach the next opportunity to meet someone thinking, “Today can be the day that I’m going to meet my true love.”

   Affirming that they will make it happen and then taking the steps to make it happen is how people who believe in true love act.

I’m not saying that people who believe in true love don’t ever get frustrated or never doubt themselves. They do!

However, they don’t let that hold them back. They keep moving forward. And I admire my clients who are steadfast in their goal to meet the one and don’t give up.

And you know what? They eventually do meet that special person!

Are you one of those people who believe in true love? If so, then you’re on your way to finding it! If not, you have some reframing to do!

And if you need someone who will hold your vision with you so it’s totally possible for you to meet your true love, then let’s talk. Go to https://motivatedtomarry.com/connect-with-coach-amy/ and let’s find a time to connect.

During our chat, we can explore what it will take to get you to truly believe love is in the cards for you!