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Why the Universe Does NOT Have Your Back
Nina Amir -- Best Transformation Coach Nina Amir -- Best Transformation Coach
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Dateline: San Jose, CA
Monday, October 26, 2020


why the universe doesn't seem to have your backIf you’ve hung around in any kind of metaphysical, New-Agey, woo-woo circles, you’ve probably heard the saying, “The universe has your back.” And if you’ve been following me for any length of time, you know I have repeated the very same words.

But the saying isn’t true…not really.

When someone says, “The universe has your back,” they mean you can trust that the Universe, like a dependable friend, will stand up for you and help you when necessary. It’s there, right behind your shoulder, looking out for you. If you fall, and it’s ready to catch you.

Well, that’s not totally correct.

This past week I heard something contradictory that rang true for me. I was told, “The Universe only has your back if you have your back.

Read that again.

I’ve often written and spoken about how everything around us is a mirror of what you think, feel, and do. The Universe reflects everything about you 100 percent of the time. If you want to know what you are thinking, feeling, doing, and creating, just look at your life.

Therefore, it makes total sense that if you have your back, the Universe reflects that to you as well. If you don’t have your back, don’t expect the Universe to have it for you. You can trust the Universe to show up for you to the same extent you show up for yourself.

An Impartial Universe

The Universe—or God, Creator, Source—is impartial. Whatever you say you desire, it reflects. It doesn’t test you. It doesn’t support you. It just reflects you—100% of the time.

That’s why it’s so important to think positive thoughts, imagine what you want, and behave in a manner that corresponds with who you want to be and the experiences and situations you’d like to have. If you don’t, you see and experience something different…something you may not enjoy or want.

Why? Because the Universe is reflecting your thoughts, feelings, and ways of being in the world. Change those, and what you see changes. This is a way of supporting yourself—having your back. Do that, and the Universe will support you at an equivalent level.

Show up in ways that are aligned with what you want and who you want to be, and you’ll see and experience situations that align with that. Have your own back, and the Universe responds in kind. You’ll see that response reflected back to you.

Stop Expecting the Universe to Have Your Back

If you go around thinking that the Universe has your back, you believe that, no matter what you do, the Universe will take care of you. This belief is like expecting God to save you whenever you get in a tough spot.

In this scenario, you stay the same—continue thinking the same thoughts and behaving in the same way—but expect things to change. And when they stay the same or get worse, you also expect God to save you—to have your back by changing the situation for you.

But you don’t do anything to improve yourself or your situation. You don’t have your back. As a result, the Universe doesn’t have your back either.

It’s as simple as that. And no amount of petitionary prayers will change anything. Only you can initiate the change you desire. The Universe will then respond to that effort.

So, don’t expect the Universe to have your back unless you do, too.

How to Have Your Own Back

Having your back is not putting your head in a hole and expecting to pull it out and have the world be different. That’s just not how it works.

Having your own back means being the creator of your life and your experiences. Make it your business—not the Universe’s business—to create the change you desire. Show up as the best version of yourself. Take action to create the life you want. As you do, the Universe will reflect that to you.

In other words, show up as the person that can have the things and experiences you want to have. Daily, take action towards being that person. Think, feel, and do the things that support having what you want. That’s you having your back.

When you have your back, you look at a problem or challenge and say, “I have the solution,” or “Everything comes easily to me.” When you see something you want, you say, “I have ____,” and then behave in the way someone who would have that would act.

You don’t stay stuck in your stories and negative thoughts. And you don’t remain mired in your habitual—and unsupportive—behaviors. You think and do something new that aligns with who you want to be and what you want to create. That’s you having your back.

Create a Plan to Have Your Back

I know all of this seems easier said than done. To help you start having your back, crack out a journal, and go through this three-part exercise.

  1. Determine where you’re expecting God or the Universe to take care of or fix things for you—without you doing anything different.
  2. Then, identify where you need to do a better job of having your back. These are areas in which you are not thinking or behaving in a manner that would help you create what you want. (They might be the same areas you identified in your answer to the first question, or they might be different.) Ask yourself: Where am I not showing up how I need to show up to create the change I desire?
  3. Create an action plan that details all the things you need to be and do to have your back. How will you show up or “be” in the world? What will you do, or what actions will you take? How will you think?

Put the Plan Into Action

As an example, let’s say your relationship with your significant other is failing. You are always focused on the problems, complaining about your partner, and worrying about how you’ll support yourself if you break up. You wish something would change—that the Universe, with all its benevolence, would transform the situation. And you are waiting for that to happen.

Obviously, your relationship is an area of your life where you do not have your back. You’re doing nothing to create a different situation; in fact, you are doing a lot to worsen it. It stays the same or gets worse because the Universe is, once again, reflecting the fact that you do not have your back. Your thoughts and actions simply perpetuate the relationship issues.

Having your back requires answering these questions: “How do I need to change so I can alter the situation? “What kind of relationship do I want to create and with whom? What do I have to do to take care of myself financially? How do I take care of myself in this situation?”

Once you have clarity—a vision of the relationship and situation you want to create— you can decide how to make that happen. You can choose to change yourself by taking the actions you identified.

For instance, stop complaining about and finding fault with your partner. Instead, feel gratitude for the relationship and appreciate the qualities that made you fall in love. Decide how to earn enough money to feel financially independent; then, take the actions required to increase your income. And decide how you need to be in a relationship and businesses to succeed at both. Then, be that person.

Do these things, and you will see a reflection of those changes in your relationship and your income level. You will have your back, and the Universe will, too.

Stop expecting the Universe to take care of you. Instead, expect that of yourself. Have your own back, and the Universe will have it, too.

What would it look like for you to show up every day as the person who has your own back? Tell me in a comment below. And please share this post with your social network or someone you feel will benefit.

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Nina Amir is known as the Inspiration to Creation Coach. As one of 800 elite Certified High Performance Coaches working around the world, she helps her clients Achieve More Inspired Results. She works with people who want to realize their dreams, achieve their potential, fulfill their purpose, and live full lives that feed their souls. Nina is also a bestselling author, certified Law of Attraction Coach, certified rebirther, and ordained minister.

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