Thursday, May 28, 2009

As a service to women who are faced with the decision of whether or not to leave a cheating mate, infidelity expert, Ruth Houston, founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and author of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs, has compiled a new infidelity tip sheet/special report entitled Go or Stay? How to Decide If You Should Give a Cheater a 2nd Chance.

Houston, a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news, says, " If a woman isn't sure whether to leave a cheating spouse or significant other, or whether she should to stay with him and try to work things out, the Go or Stay Tip Sheet is designed to help her decide on the best course of action to take. It covers some of the factors a woman should consider when trying to decide whether to leave the cheater or give him a second chance."

Many Factors Should Be Taken into Consideration

Houston, who was once a victim of infidelity herself says, "I know from the many female infidelity victims I've interviewed in my research over the past 15 years, that the decision of whether to terminate the marriage or relationship, or stay with the cheater is not an easy one to make. Most women spend weeks, months, or even years, agonizing over what to do. There are many factors that need to be taken into consideration, including the circumstances under which the cheating occurred, the cheater's attitude about the affair, whether there are children involved, the length of the marriage or relationship, the type and duration of affair and more."

Houston continues, "There's no one-size-fits-all solution when it comes to dealing with infidelity, because no two situations are exactly the same. Each woman has to examine her own circumstances and decide what's in her (and her children's) best interests to do. Women who make this decision on the spur of the moment without taking everything into consideration, often regret the choice they've made. Regardless of whether a woman decides to go or stay, either choice comes with its own unique set of problems and challenges."

Tip Sheet Also Addresses Obstacles to Taking a Cheater Back

Houston's Go or Stay Tip Sheet also addresses the two biggest obstacles to taking a cheating spouse or significant other back: 1- the fear that the cheater is still carrying on the affair behind the infidelity victim's back, and 2- the fear that the cheater will cheat again. The Go or Stay Tip Sheet suggests ways a woman can overcome these two fears if she decides to stay with her cheating mate.

The Go or Stay tip sheet is available free by e-mail request. Send an e-mail to InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with "Go or Stay-X" in the subject line.

Help for Women Who Have Decided to Stay With a Cheating Mate

Women who have already made the decision to stay with a cheating mate can greatly benefit from the e-book version of Houston's popular infidelity book Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs from http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html , because the bonus section that comes with it contains the valuable Affair Recovery Information listed below:

• What the Two of You Must Do to Survive Your Husband's Affair

• Advice for the Husband Who Cheated

• Advice for the Betrayed Wife

• Can Your Marriage Survive His Affair? - Questionnaire

• Will He Cheat Again? – Questionnaire

The Affair Recovery Information plus the other infidelity tip sheets and special reports in the Bonus Section of Is He Cheating on You? will be especially helpful to women who are trying to reconcile with a cheating mate.

NOTE: The bonus section comes with the e-book version ONLY, (not the soft cover edition) of Is He Cheating on You? which is available from http://www.booklocker.com/books/1755.html for $37.

MORE FREE INFIDELITY TIP SHEETS

The Go or Stay tip sheet is just one of several free infidelity tip sheets and special reports from infidelity expert Ruth Houston, designed to provide practical, immediately-usable information for women and men who are struggling with issues of infidelity.

For a complete list of free infidelity tip sheets and special infidelity reports, visit http://FREEInfidelityTipSheets.blogspot.com

For more information about infidelity, cheating husbands, or extramarital affairs, visit www.InfidelityAdvice.com or http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com

About Ruth Houston:

Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and the author of" Is He Cheating on You?– 829 Telltale Signs which covers practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. She has been researching infidelity for over 15 years.

Frequently called on by the media to comment on popular infidelity issues in the news, Houston has been quoted in USA Today, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Los Angeles Times, the New York Daily News, Cosmopolitan, the New York Post, the Chicago Tribune, FoxNews.com, ABCNews.com, msnbc.com, Reuters, the Associated Press, UPI and numerous other print and online media.

Houston has also appeared on The Today Show, Good Morning America, CNN, Fox & Friends, Fox News, The Morning Show with Mike and Juliet, BBC, CBC and over 480 other radio and TV shows in the United States, Canada, Europe, South America, New Zealand, Australia, Africa, and the Caribbean.

To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston about infidelity, cheating husbands, or extramarital affairs, call 718 592-6039 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com