Monday, December 16, 2024
I have news for you: Some people don’t want to be helped. They will not listen to you, or fail to do what you suggest, or pretend to do something—and always report back that your help didn’t work. They will engage you in this charade forever, simply “proving” that the world is at fault, the fates are against them,
and you haven’t been helpful.Whether family, friends, or clients, this is a losing proposition for you. So, allow them to be helpless.It’s really their desired condition. Therefore, maybe you’ll be helping them after all.