Monday, October 5, 2020
Parents Can Prevent Children's Divorce Panic and Pain with Heartspace®
When Parents Divorce, Children DO NOT need to Suffer!
#1 Focus for Parents must be calming their children even when they are frightened, angry and scared themselves.
#2 Focus for Parents must be teaching their children self-soothing skills to prevent PTSD that is often a permanent scar after Divorce.
The emotional state of children is 100% dependent on their parent's ability to self-soothe. Susan Allan's Heartspace® includes 6 self-soothing tools for parents and when even one parent practices and uses one of these skills daily the following seemingly miraculous results again and again:
- Children who spoke of suicide become hopeful and peaceful within weeks
- Children who have been bullying others cease these behaviors within weeks
- Children who are frequently crying and yelling become more calm
- Children who have regular nightmares or cannot sleep begin to sleep through the night within weeks.
For 22 years, Susan Allan has offered unique and proven tools and skills to clients worldwide as well as to those needing the benefits of the Marriage Forum Inc.'s non-profit complimentary session program which has offered over 10,000 phone sessions since 1999.
The 1st Step is for even one parent to master just one of the self-soothing skills
The 2nd Step is for that parent to practice self-soothing so that parent controls all emotional outbursts and becomes a calming and rational balance at home.
The 3rd step includes one parent mastering Empathy skills so that the child or children are calmed and become relaxed, knowing that they will be safe, even in the face of divorce.
Conclusion: In families where children become deeply disturbed during and after the divorce process, it was not the impending divorce that affected the children, creating such challenges in their behaviors. It was the fear, anger, and grief that they sensed from their parents that generated panic and PTSD. Once the parent learns to self-soothe and control negative thoughts, the children returned to well-being.
Since 1999 Susan has offered 10,000 free sessions and during the free one-hour phone or Zoom session, Susan Allan allows the parent to select 1 of these 6 tools so that peace can return to the home within days.
https://heartspacesolutions.com/peaceful-divorce/