I’ve spent twenty-five years coaching brilliant, capable, compassionate women — the kind of women who succeed in every area of life except love. Women just like you! And during every conversation, a similar question arises:

“How can I be so successful everywhere… but feel so confused about relationships?”

It’s not a flaw.
It’s not your fault.
And you are not alone.

Most women were taught to achieve, to produce, to solve problems — but not how to recognize emotional availability, how to communicate needs without conflict, or how to date consciously instead of anxiously. It’s no wonder so many women repeat painful patterns without understanding why.

What I’ve learned after decades of teaching the Heartspace® Method is that dating isn’t about luck, beauty, timing, or being “better.” It’s about possessing powerful, effective relationship skills — the emotional intelligence no one ever taught us.

Before I became a coach, I studied and practiced for twenty years as I ran a successful fashion business in NYC. So, no Trial and Error; in my eBooks, you will see what truly produces the biggest results.

When you understand how attraction works, how nervous system safety affects connection, how to choose an aligned partner, and how to communicate your boundaries with clarity and confidence… everything changes.

Dating becomes calmer.
Love becomes easier.
You stop chasing unavailable partners

You start attracting the ones who can actually meet you.

This is why I wrote Heartspace® Dating & Relationship Secrets: How Smart Women Build Lasting Love and Emotional Intimacy.

It gathers everything I’ve taught clients — the patterns, the tools, the scripts, the emotional shifts, the communication practices — into one compassionate, practical guide.

If you’ve ever wondered why dating has felt painful, confusing, or discouraging… this book will finally give you the clarity and structure you’ve been missing.

The Heartspace® Trilogy, including this eBook on Dating and Relationships, launches in just a few days.

Please join me to experience the transformation within these pages and the complimentary 1-hour private session that you can schedule with me as well. With the eBook, you get answers that work. With the private session, you also receive your personal Blueprint of what works for you. Warmly, Susan Allan