Mariliyn L. Redmond has been included in the current "Who's Who in America", because I know how we can use spiritual principles for responsibly resolving life challenges in our lives. Life is no longer a mystery. Through this understanding and additional solutions to resolving life issues I have learned by experiencing the dynamics of life.

Being raised in domestic violence and abuse was my childhood. The family was also dysfunctional with my mother being mentally ill and my father being an alcoholic. When she remarried, I realized later that my stepfather was sicker that she was. He was more abusive and cruel than my father. Victimized and abused by my family and relatives, I always felt powerless, hopeless, and that I had no value. I became the Cinderella of the family. My younger half sister got all the goodies and I got all the chores. I even took out the ashes from the downstairs fireplace. This programming determined the rest of my life until I was into recovery after thirty years of marriage.  

It has taken me years to understand the dynamics of my circumstances. Unwittingly, I married what I was used to a psychopath, alcoholic, sex addict, and rageaholic. It was familiar. After years of being victimized in my marriage, I finally had to leave for my survival. He was trying to kill me and I was trying suicide to get out of the hell.

Later, I understood why I did not know how to address my situations. I found that I had emotionally shut down at the age of three from fear of being beaten like my mother. I had no living skill as my parents never matured from their abusive backgrounds. I had stayed in my marriage out the fear of abandonment and financial insecurity. I drank to numb myself from rape and his trying to kill me. The psychiatrist prescribed for my anxiety and I got addicted to the medications.  Through going to treatment, I finally started to gain some insight into my plight.   

I was used to being a workaholic and overachiever to protect me emotionally. I did not have to be present as a "doer". I went for help; the psychiatrist prescribed Valium. Being addicted to the medication I went to treatment and found that one drink of alcohol and one pill is six times the effect. They stuffed my feelings from the daily anguish and stopped my emotional maturity.

Living in total abstinence from drinking and prescriptions started my journey into sanity. The medications had stopped my being able to make rational decisions with a clear mind. In recovery, there were several more attempts to kill me. One evening, I knew I would be another Nicole Simpson. Time stood still and I was told to pray for him, "God forgive him for he knows not what he does, God bless him".  I said this twice and then heard from the silent voice within that I could leave the room Angels held him so he could not come closer to me. I left the room untouched as other angels protected me to pass in front of him as I went for the door to leave the room.      

Subsequently, he left the room and went to watch television in another part of the house. I started praying for him daily. I found when you send love to a person it is like an armor of protection. A person cannot attack love. This is the answer to domestic violence.

I was able to get a divorce and my share of our assets. Most domestic women leave with nothing. This answer is the solution. I had to clean up my innermost self of anger and fear from former abuse growing up and trying to defend myself to stop the passive aggressive game. My trying to shield myself at a subconscious level was like an attack to him. He was defending himself on a visual level. We were acting out the game, "King of the Mountain" as adults. 

I found the solution to being safe around unsafe people is to pray for them. We all long for love and as children from dysfunctional families never got love. I turned to the "Father of Light" for help and the light healed the darkness. Love never fails.

Today, I am in a relationship of unconditional love. I have written 10 books, have 175 You Tubes, produced and hosted two radio programs, am an ordained minister for counseling and past life therapy, teach, speak, and am a medium.  I share my knowledge to help others move into a life of grace.   

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