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Feeling Lonely in a Connected World
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Jerry Cahn, Ph.D., J.D. --  Age Brilliantly Jerry Cahn, Ph.D., J.D. -- Age Brilliantly
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Dateline: New York, NY
Saturday, June 7, 2025

 

You can have hundreds of friends on Facebook, constant texts from family, and still feel profoundly alone. Loneliness doesn’t always stem from isolation—it can grow in the middle of a crowd, especially in a world where digital communication often replaces deep, human connection.

A Harvard study spanning over 85 years found that “the clearest message we get from this 80-year study is this: good relationships keep us happier and healthier. Period.” (Harvard Gazette). And yet, we are seeing an epidemic of loneliness, especially among adults navigating life transitions—like retirement, caregiving, or even career shifts.

Why Are So Many People Feeling Lonely?

According to the U.S. Surgeon General’s 2023 Advisory on the Healing Effects of Social Connection, loneliness has become a public health crisis. More than half of U.S. adults report feeling lonely, with effects linked to depression, heart disease, dementia, and even premature death (source).

The irony is that we are more digitally connected than ever. But notifications don’t nourish us. Authentic connection requires attention, presence, and reciprocity—things that algorithms and scrolling can’t provide.

Whether you’re feeling lonely after a life change, or just sensing a lack of meaningful connection, it’s never too late to shift your social experience—and reclaim the joy that comes with true belonging.

Action Steps to Reconnect With Purpose

1. Audit Your Connections
 Ask yourself: Who energizes me? Who drains me? Who do I miss? Consider keeping a “connection journal” for a week. Jot down how you feel after each interaction. Then use that insight to reach out more intentionally.

2. Join Values-Aligned Communities
 Connection thrives where values align. Whether it’s volunteering, hiking, writing, or faith-based groups—shared meaning fosters deep bonds. Try platforms likeMeetup,Encore.org, orCivicLife Project to meet people who care about similar things.

3. Use Tech to Deepen, Not Distract
 Instead of endlessly scrolling, schedule one meaningful video chat each week. Apps likeMarco Polo orRemente can help turn tech into tools for reflection and intentional outreach.

4. Rebuild the Habit of Small Talk
 Don’t underestimate the value of small, daily exchanges. Chat with your barista. Greet your neighbor. These micro-moments can help rebuild trust and ease the transition into deeper relationships over time, as highlighted in this study from the American Psychological Association on how even brief interactions can improve wellbeing (source).

5. Seek Professional Support if Needed
 If loneliness has turned into depression or social anxiety, seek help. Websites likeBetterHelp orPsychology Today can match you with therapists who specialize in life transitions and emotional health.

Tools and Resources for Connection

  • Age Brilliantly – Join a vibrant community committed to leading fulfilling 100-year lives
  • Peanut – Connects women navigating menopause, aging, and new chapters of life
  • Nextdoor – Build local connections within your neighborhood
  • Human Online – A global platform for mindful conversation and active listening
  • Voco – A guided journaling and self-reflection app that helps deepen emotional self-awareness

It’s Not Just About More People—It’s About Better Conversations

Loneliness isn’t just the absence of people—it’s the absence of feeling seen and understood. If you’re surrounded by people but still feel disconnected, it may be time to explore how you’re engaging.

Try setting a personal “connection intention” each week. It could be as simple as calling an old friend, joining a new group, or asking someone deeper questions beyond “How are you?”

Because when we engage with purpose, we invite others to do the same.

Interactive Check-In: What Can You Change This Week?

What does meaningful connection look like for you right now?
 Have you experienced loneliness even when you weren’t alone?
 What’s one small change you could make to connect more deeply—with others or even with yourself?

Let’s turn this insight into action—together.

We invite you to join the conversation in theAge Brilliantly Forum. Share your story. Ask a question. Explore how others are rebuilding their social lives with purpose. Because no one should have to navigate loneliness alone—and together, we can build a more connected world, one conversation at a time.

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