Saturday, May 24, 2025
What if you didn’t need to overhaul your entire life to create one filled with purpose, joy, and meaning? What if you only needed one intentional decision each year to change your trajectory?
The “One Decision Per Year” rule is a radical shift from the pressure of doing everything all at once. It invites you to focus, simplify, and invest deeply in a single change that aligns with the future you want. As author Annie Dillard once wrote, “How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives.” One intentional shift per year can add up to an extraordinary life.
Why This Rule Works
We often overestimate what we can do in a week—and underestimate what we can do in a year. Neuroscience supports this. According to astudy published in Frontiers in Psychology, consistent focus on one goal increases motivation, habit formation, and life satisfaction over time. The brain thrives on clarity.
Rather than setting dozens of resolutions and feeling overwhelmed, this approach allows you to choose one high-impact decision that reshapes your life across one of the eight Life Essentials: Health, Finance, Relationships, Purpose, Passion, Career, Learning, or Time Mastery.
It’s not about doing everything. It’s about doing the right thing for your next season of life.
What Does One Brilliant Decision Look Like?
Your decision doesn’t have to be grandiose. It just needs to be meaningful. It might be:
- Saying yes to weekly date nights to reconnect with your partner
- Starting a health journey by walking every morning
- Launching a passion project you’ve postponed for years
- Taking a course to pivot your career
- Committing to writing your life story
- Downsizing to create more freedom and less stress
- Reaching out to rebuild a relationship you miss
These aren’t quick fixes. They are life-shaping moves that echo into future decades.
Action Steps: How to Choose Your One Decision This Year
1. Reflect on the 8 Life Essentials
Go through each area—Health, Finance, Relationships, Purpose, Passion, Career, Learning, Time Mastery—and ask yourself: What feels off? What feels exciting? What’s calling for my attention?
You can use tools likeRemente orLifetick to visualize your current life balance and clarify where to focus.
2. Write Your Future-Back Letter
Imagine it’s one year from now. Write a letter from your future self describing what decision you made, how it changed your life, and how it feels. Apps likeFutureMe can help you schedule this for delivery in 12 months.
3. Make It Specific and Supportive
Don’t just say, “I’ll improve my health.” Say, “I’ll walk 20 minutes every weekday and track it withPacer orStrava.” The clearer your decision, the more achievable it becomes.
4. Build a Support System Around It
Share your decision with someone who can encourage you. Better yet, join a group with similar goals. Communities likeAge Brilliantly,Meetup, orCoach.me offer accountability and momentum.
5. Revisit Monthly and Celebrate Progress
Set a calendar reminder to check in with yourself. Journaling apps likeDay One help you reflect, adjust, and celebrate. Even small progress compounds over time.
Why One Decision Per Year Is More Powerful Than It Seems
When you focus on just one change, you create space for mastery, habit-building, and meaningful transformation. You also remove the mental clutter that keeps so many people stuck in overwhelm or indecision.
This concept mirrors the compound effect: small, repeated actions yield massive results. Over 10 years, 10 well-aligned decisions can completely redefine your life. Not by rushing. But by choosing intentionally.
AHarvard Business Review article on high-performing individuals found that the most successful people weren’t those with the most goals—but those with the clearest priorities.
- Lifetick – Long-term goal tracking with values alignment
- Remente – Personal development planning and reflection
- Day One – Track your journey, celebrate wins, and reflect
- Coach.me – Build habits and stay accountable
- Age Brilliantly – Connect with others building 100-year lives, one brilliant step at a time
Let’s Reflect: What’s Your One Decision This Year?
What area of your life is quietly asking for change?
What’s one decision you could make this year that your future self would thank you for?
How would your life feel if you followed through on just one meaningful shift?
We invite you to share your thoughts in theAge Brilliantly Forum. Tell us your one decision, ask for encouragement, or inspire others to simplify and focus. A brilliant life isn’t built in a day—but one intentional decision at a time can get you there.
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