Wednesday, December 2, 2009

When infidelity expert Ruth Houston is called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity in the news, she is often asked what women in this situation should do.

Three days ago, Houston, the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and the author of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs wrote an article entitled What Tiger Woods' Wife Should Do if the Infidelity Rumors Are True.

This was a follow-up article to Houston's previous article entitled An Infidelity Expert's Advice to Tiger Woods' Wife

Other Women Can Benefit from this Advice

"From the very beginning, I've been inundated with questions from readers who want to know my take on the situation, and who are curious about what advice I'd give Elin Nordegren Woods," says Houston, who has researched infidelity for over 15 years.

Houston continues, "The information in the articles was specifically directed to Tiger Woods' wife. And though no two episodes of infidelity are exactly alike, women in similar situations can also benefit from this advice."

In view of recent Tiger Woods' admission of his "transgressions" and his involvement with three different women – Rachel Uchitel, Jaimee Grubbs, and Kalika Moquin , Houston has issued an updated article entitled More Infidelity Advice from an Expert for Tiger Woods' Wife, Now That the Rumors Are True, re-emphasizing certain points that were made.

All 3 articles are can be found on Ruth Houston's National Infidelity Examiner page at Examiner.com

Below are some key points from infidelity expert Ruth Houston's advice to Elin Nordegren Woods.

Excerpts from Ruth Houston's Infidelity Advice

• Experts all agree that you should examine all the facts, and have several non-confrontational discussions with the cheater about the cheating, so you can make an intelligent decision about what to do. Delay making a final decision until you are in possession of all the facts. See the free tip sheet entitled Go or Stay – How to Decide Whether to Give a Cheater a Second Chance.

• Don't speculate. Investigate. Separate rumor from fact so you can see what you're dealing with. You aren't bound by the same financial constraints as the average wife who finds out her husband is having an affair. You can afford to hire a reputable private investigator who specializes in infidelity investigations to check out names, dates, places, incidents, and verify the facts. See the article entitled When Should You Hire a Private Investigator to Check Out a Cheating Mate?

• Try to make an accurate assessment of the situation. Determine whether or not these affairs pose a serious threat to your marriage. See the article entitled Will He Leave You for Her?

• Don't waste any time or energy, or lower your dignity by attempting to confront purported to be Tiger's mistresses. ( Rachel Uchitel, Jaimee Grubbs, Kalika Moquin) This is about you and Tiger -- not about them. See the article entitled What NOT to Do If He's Cheating on You, and the free tip sheet entitled 5 Things You Shouldn't Do If He's Cheating on You

• Get tested for HIV/AIDS even if Tiger insists that he never had unprotected sex. And insist that Tiger be tested too. Your health and maybe even your life could be at stake (One of his alleged mistresses supposedly has a history of sleeping with married men.)

• Don't blame yourself. See the article entitled Are Wives to Blame When Their Husbands Cheat? Realize that the affair is not necessarily a negative reflection on you, or an indication of problems in your marriage. Infidelity studies have found that happy husbands cheat too, and that even good marriages are not immune to infidelity. See the articles entitled Happy Husbands Cheat ,Too and Top 10 Reasons Why Men and Women Cheat

NOTE:  To read the original articles, as well as related articles, visit Ruth Houston's National Infidelity page at Examiner.com, where you will also find links to infidelity resources and free infidelity tip sheets and special reports.

About Ruth Houston:

Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com  and the author of Is He Cheating on You?– 829 Telltale Signs She has been researching infidelity for over 15 years.

Frequently called on by the media to comment on popular infidelity issues, high profile infidelity, and infidelity breaking news, Ruth Houston has been quoted in USA Today, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Los Angeles Times, the New York Daily News, Cosmopolitan, the New York Post, the Chicago Tribune, FoxNews.com, ABCNews.com, msnbc.com, Reuters, the Associated Press, UPI and numerous other print and online media worldwide.

Ruth Houston has also been a guest on The Today Show, Good Morning America, CNN, Fox & Friends, Fox News, The Morning Show with Mike and Juliet, CBS News, NPR, GMTV, BBC, CBC and over 540 other radio and TV news and talk shows in the United States, Canada, Europe, South America, New Zealand, Australia, Africa, and the Caribbean.

Ruth is also the National Infidelity Examiner for Examiner.com

To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or book her to speak at your next event, call 718 592-6039 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com  

For more information on infidelity and extramarital affairs, visit Ruth's Infidelity News and Views Blog, www.InfidelityAdvice.com or see Ruth's National Infidelity Examiner page at http://www.examiner.com/x-17416-Infidelity-Examiner