If you’re a smart, accomplished woman who seems to “have everything together,” this may surprise you:
You are more likely than most women to attract emotionally unavailable men.
It’s not because you’re “too picky.”
It’s not because “all the good ones are taken.”
And it’s definitely not because something is wrong with you.
It’s because you’ve been taught to excel everywhere except in the emotional landscape of love.
Millions of talented, successful women like you have wasted decades and lifetimes on the wrong men
I’ve been married twice
I’ve had 17 MARRIAGE PROPOSALS and here is the truth-
I never should have married any of these men!
Fun, Some were
Exciting. Others were
Uber Successful. Yes, there were many of these, too.
But Marriage Material for ME- not one of them!
Here’s what you may NOT know:
A smart, capable woman knows how to solve problems, build a career, run a household, make decisions, and stay calm in chaos. She knows how to create GREAT results in almost any environment. She knows how to focus, give, and keep at it again and again.
But these strengths can turn into disasters in dating.
And these STRENGTHS can lead you to the “D” Word again and again!
UNLESS YOU LEARN DATING SKILLS and MARRIAGE SKILLS.
When you’re used to handling things, you tend to:
overlook red flags
over-invest early
extend compassion to men who haven’t earned it and will never deserve it
rationalize their inconsistent behavior
believe you can “help him transform”
stay too long because you THINK you see his potential when you’re only seeing yourself reflected in his eyes!
His inabilities are not your own capabilities
You date as you work. You see a challenge, you find solutions.
Believe me, I know about this; my website is called Heartspace® Solutions!
But an intimate partnership can’t be a DIY project.
It’s not supposed to be a rescue.
It’s not meant to be a place where you’re endlessly compensating for his problems and lack of skills.
Yet…
That’s exactly what happens to too many strong women.
The pattern usually looks like this:
A man starts out charming, present, and enthusiastic.
You feel a spark you haven’t felt in years.
You lean in.
You share.
You hope.
You invest.
What if instead, you invested a few dollars in this eBook and learned many of the skills you need to attract and select the best possible partner for you based on brain science?
Then slowly, you begin to see what’s behind the Party Manners:
he becomes inconsistent
he avoids deeper conversations
he disappears when you need connection
he withdraws emotionally after intimacy
he gives excuses instead of effort
he talks about “stress” or “timing” or “not sure what he’s ready for”
You tell yourself:
“He’s just scared.”
“He needs time.”
“He’s different when it’s just us.”
“He told me he’s never felt this way before.”
But his actions don’t match his words.
They never do.
Sound familiar?
Here’s the truth no one tells strong women:
Emotionally unavailable men are magnetized to women who do the emotional labor for them.
If you are compassionate…
If you are patient…
If you are emotionally literate…
If you are supportive…
You become irresistible to men who crave those qualities — not because they want to meet you at your level, but because being with you allows them to stay exactly as they are.
And here’s the breakthrough:
You will stop attracting the wrong men the moment you stop accepting them.
Let that sink in.
Wrong men stop appearing when you have clarity about WHO YOU REQUIRE.
When you start dating with clarity instead of chemistry…
When you evaluate emotional availability, not potential…
When you slow down the pace and choose differently…
When you stop “auditioning” and start observing…
Your entire romantic life transforms.
The Heartspace® Method teaches this in a specific way because you learn what I’ve learned, not in 40 years, but MUCH FASTER:
You learn how to:
Recognize patterns that predict long-term love
Use The 6 Part Conversation’s© intentional communication instead of emotional over-giving
Let men court you rather than you pursuing them
Create a bond based on safety, reciprocity, and devotion with The Tantric Lock© for Sacred Intimacy that defies the “D” word!
You also learn something most dating advice never mentions:
The right man isn’t searching for your bank account balance. He’s inspired by how much you enhance each other’s lives. He wants to hear your view of life, marriage, and family, and what true partnership is for you.
This is the feminine shift that changes everything.
When you elevate your standards instead of lowering them…
When you choose men who choose YOU…
Love becomes easy.
Safe.
Secure.
Steady.
Real.
Lasting.
And if this resonated…you now understand that a need to learn DATING SKILLS and MARRIAGE SKILLS is the #1 reason that smart, successful women just like you have suffered so long.
Then please read this with your heart:
?? **This is exactly what I teach step-by-step in my eBook
Heartspace® Dating & Relationship Secrets:
How Smart Women Build Lasting Love and Emotional Intimacy.
If you’re ready for love that feels like home — the kind that brings peace, laughter, and devotion — then this guide is for you.
?? Download your copy here:
Your love story isn’t behind you.
Please Download your Copy here:
It’s waiting for you — and it begins the moment you choose differently.
And if you’re not yet ready to learn the key skills for Dating and Marriage, please email and request the 60 pages of Heartspace Testimonials so you see what these eBooks and these skills will do for your life and your future.
Warmly, Susan Allan email me your questions HERE