For Immediate Release:
Dateline: San Francisco,
CA
Thursday, April 2, 2020
“Maybe you don’t feel that enough people love you, but I can tell you, there’s a world of people out there who need you at this moment.” — Esther Perel
Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel (@EstherPerelOfficial) is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and original voices on modern relationships. Fluent in nine languages, she helms a therapy practice in New York City and serves as an organizational consultant for Fortune 500 companies around the world. Esther is an acclaimed TED speaker and the host of the hit podcasts Where Should We Begin? and How’s Work?. Esther also recently launched Couples Under Lockdown, a bonus miniseries on her podcast Where Should We Begin?. The first episode aired last week and features a couple in Sicily several weeks into their quarantine. Esther will also host an international conversation about the new normal—what it means for our relationships and how we can move forward in a time of social distancing, uncertainty, and grief. It will be broadcast live on Facebook and YouTube. The four-part series, entitled The Art of Us: Love, Loss, and Loneliness under Lockdown, will be broadcast live at 3 p.m. ET, on April 1st, 8th, 15th, and 22nd. Please enjoy! Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Overcast, Stitcher, Castbox, Google Podcasts, or on your favorite podcast platform.
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What was your favorite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments. SCROLL BELOW FOR LINKS AND SHOW NOTES… Want to hear an episode with another fascinating therapist? Listen to my conversation with Lori Gottlieb on this podcast in which we discuss the hierarchy of pain, idiot compassion vs. wise compassion, the benefits of learning to “unknow” oneself, why insight is the booby prize of therapy, and much more (stream below or right-click here to download):
SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODE- Connect with Esther Perel:
Website | Twitter | Instagram | Facebook | YouTube - Couples Under Lockdown
- The Art of Us: Love, Loss, and Loneliness Under Lockdown
- Esther’s Past Appearances on This Show
- Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel
- How’s Work? with Esther Perel
- Sessions with Esther Perel
- Rekindling Desire
- The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel
- Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel
- Coronavirus Disease 2019 (COVID-19), CDC
- I Love You: A Theory of Love, Francesco Alberoni
- How ‘Anticipatory Grief’ May Show Up During the COVID-19 Outbreak, Healthline
- Guide for All-Hazard Emergency Operations Planning, FEMA
- Iraq’s Scud Ballistic Missiles, Federation of American Scientists
- Structure, Self-Care Important for Parents and Kids During the Coronavirus Pandemic, WFPL News Louisville
- The Coronavirus Has Now Killed More People in the US than the 9/11 Terror Attacks, Vox
- The Jewish Community of Antwerp, Belgium by Haim F. Ghiuzeli, Museum of the Jewish People
- A Brief History of the Bizarre and Sadistic Presidential Fitness Test, Vox
- Implicit and Explicit Long-Term Memory, Verywell Mind
- Zoom
- Use FaceTime with Your iPhone, iPad, or iPod Touch, Apple
- VolunteerMatch
- Nextdoor
- A Timeline of HIV and AIDS, HIV.gov
- Steezy Online Dance Classes
- Gaga Dance
- The Happy Body Program by Aniela and Jerzy Gregorek
- The Lion of Olympic Weightlifting, 62-Year-Old Jerzy Gregorek (Also Featuring: Naval Ravikant), The Tim Ferriss Show #228
- The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel
- Groundhog Day
- Are Saunas the Next Big Performance-Enhancing “Drug?” by Rhonda Patrick, tim.blog
- Foam Rollers
- BONECO Travel Ultrasonic Humidifier
- Peloton
- Brené Brown — Striving versus Self-Acceptance, Saving Marriages, and More, The Tim Ferriss Show #409
- Jojo Rabbit
- The Marriage of Maria Braun
- Dumb and Dumber
- Stars In My Crown
- A Dance to the Music of Time: First Movement by Anthony Powell
- Badlands
- WHO, UN Foundation and Partners Launch COVID-19 Solidarity Response Fund, Medical Laboratory Observer
Esther’s COVID-19 Online Resources For Those with Kids For Dance Lovers For Art Lovers For Theater Lovers For Music Lovers For Student Composers/Songwriters - Every Wednesday for the next three weeks, Paramount’s New Works Department will unveil a new theme for the series and post guidelines for submissions for that week’s topic.
- About: Student songwriters, whether in high school, college, or any student who has learned their school won’t be in session for the foreseeable future, are encouraged to write, perform and submit an original song on video about their connection to their school. The deadline to submit is Wednesday, April 1, at midnight.
- To submit a video, email a downloadable link (Dropbox, Google Drive, etc.) to Paramount’s New Works Department at newworks@paramountarts.com. (Note: If filming with a cell phone, horizontal orientation is preferred but not required.)
- Please visit ParamountAurora.com for more information, and Paramount’s Facebook, Instagram and YouTube pages. Questions to be directed to newworks@paramountarts.com
- Submissions will be accepted until Wednesday, April 8th at midnight. The second Connection compilation video will be posted for free viewing on Saturday, April 11, at 8 p.m.
- The series is currently slated to run for three weeks, through April 18, but may continue until stay at home orders are lifted. Each week’s Connection social media concert will run approximately 30 minutes.
Relief Funds, Donations, Assistance, Etc. in NYC Other Resources SHOW NOTES- What has Esther’s current day in quarantine been like so far?
- While conducting remote therapy with couples in quarantine, what noteworthy patterns has Esther been observing?
- During this COVID-19 crisis, some of us are having difficulty navigating a world that isn’t anything like it was just a few short weeks ago, while others are having an easier time adapting to “the new normal.” How does Esther counsel a couple in which each partner takes the opposite approach?
- Is dealing with the uncertainty, mortality, and possibly grief of these trying times made easier for those of us who don’t have kids to take care of on top of everything else?
- When memories of past stressors aggravate the anxieties of the present, and how we might come to terms with them through reframing our self-image.
- If you’ve got something to say to someone — especially parents and older friends and relatives — write them a letter or call them now. Don’t wait.
- The paradoxes presented by spending more time with the family, and the power of disruption + impending disaster to accelerate big choices we might put off in less chaotic times.
- How might someone approach a shared-custody conversation with an ex who seems to be handling the COVID-19 crisis less responsibly than you like?
- How can couples and families cope and give each other space when they’re quarantined together? How might they use the circumstances as an opportunity to bond with, rather than intrude upon, one another?
- How can long-distance couples now separated for perhaps longer than usual maintain their connection?
- Prompts for reconnecting with people you haven’t talked to in a while and keeping the conversation going beyond the perfunctory — especially when you’re communicating with someone who doesn’t easily share their feelings.
- Putting things in perspective for someone who insists that they’re feeling ‘great’ right now.
- Advice for people who, either by choice or circumstance, are spending their quarantine alone.
- Why does Esther think dancing is even better for keeping our spirits up than exercise?
- What a day of quarantine currently looks like at my house.
- What a day of quarantine currently looks like for Esther.
- How Esther makes her global movie and book clubs work.
- On the importance of maintaining rituals, enjoying music, and decompressing from too much bad news.
- Parting thoughts.
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