To relationship-focused people, being part of a couple is the most natural way to live. They may be fine on their own, but they prefer to be in a relationship. They choose the coupled life over the single life.

You may assume that every single person wants to be in a committed relationship. Isn’t love what we’re all here for?

However — surprise! — not every single person is searching for love (at least not in the form of a romantic, committed relationship). Some people simply aren’t relationship-focused, and they avoid committed relationships altogether.

And there’s nothing wrong with that. This isn’t about judgment. It’s about choice.

Unless you come from a tradition of arranged marriages, being in a relationship is a choice that you make for your life.

So how do you know you’re truly relationship-focused?

When I talk with potential clients, I listen for specific indications that they are marriage-minded — or at least ready for a committed relationship.

Which of the following relationship-focused signs are true for you?

1. You envision yourself as part of a couple. You can’t imagine not being in a relationship or having a life partner. Being coupled is who you are and how you see yourself.
2. You’re hopeful that there is someone out there for you. You have a positive outlook about relationships and are a hopeless romantic.
3. It’s rare that you aren’t in a relationship. If one relationship ends, you don’t give up on love or waste time feeling sorry for yourself. Being in a couple is your preference, so you usually have a steady mate in your life.
4. You surround yourself with positive, encouraging people who support your goal of having a significant other. You’ve got coupled friends. You insulate yourself from people who try to make you feel badly for pursuing a relationship.
5. You seek to learn and grow as a person with the support of a coach, counselor, or group. You’re open to learning the relationship skills you need to have a successful, loving partnership.
6. You’re willing to go outside your comfort zone and try something new to meet your life partner. Trying a new online dating site, exploring a new group, or going on a blind date are risks you’re willing to take in your pursuit of true love.
7. You’re ready to take action to find your life partner. Enough of just talking about it! You’re doing what it takes to meet that person. You’re exploring all the avenues available to meet eligible, quality people who are also looking for a life partner.

In other words, being a relationship-focused person means you are very proactive.

You’re willing to invest in learning about yourself and how to be the best you can be in a relationship.

Personally, I never saw myself not being married. I knew that I would meet my life partner, even after a devastating divorce.

I never gave up hope. So, I joined a coaching group to gain greater knowledge and support. And then I partnered with my relationship coach to work through my own blind spots.

I expanded my social group. And I met people through activities and events that put me in a position to meet eligible men who were also motivated to marry.

I joined a co-ed bowling league, went to tennis parties, and even tried speed dating. Singles’ trips, biking weekends, and singles events? I was there. I also answered classified ads and dated online. There was no stone that I left unturned.

And I did all this while also running a business.

I ended up meeting my husband Alan at one of those singles’ events. And, thanks to my coach, who helped me see Alan as “the one,” didn’t weed him out immediately as I did with other guys.

We have now been married for over 19 years!

Clearly, I was motivated!

How motivated are you to meet your true love partner?

Are you willing to do what it takes to meet your forever life partner? Would you like to get off the dating merry-go-round?

I’ve developed a proven system that will help you truly know if someone is the right one for you within 6 weeks or less!  My coaching has been helping hundreds of singles with finding true love for over 16 years now.

If you’re ready to do what it takes to meet that special person, then come join my upcoming Meet Your Mate This Year group coaching experience.

You don’t have to go it alone — I’m here for you! If you’re willing to take action, go to www.talkwithcoachamy.com and take the first step. (Or you can sit back and stay where you are … alone.)

I can help only those who are relationship-focused, ready to take action, and willing to try something different.

Those are the people who do well with my proven coaching program.

By the way, my clients are meeting great people for committed relationships, even during a pandemic. And these people are not only in their 30’s, 40’s, and 50’s — they’re also in their 60’s and 70’s!

I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Wishing you the best in life and love,

Coach Amy

PS: We kick off the Meet Your Mate This Year Group this month! We only have two spots left. If you’re ready to move forward, go to  www.talkwithcoachamy.com to see if this intimate coaching group of a dozen motivated men and women is the right next step for you!