"Sandra Bullock can teach women with cheating husbands, some valuable lessons on surviving infidelity from the way she handled Jesse James' multiple affairs." says Ruth Houston, a New York infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on celebrity infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news.
Sandra Bullock's Successful Coping Strategies Says Houston, "In dealing with the devastating betrayal of Jesse James, with whom she was deeply in love, Sandra Bullock employed several successful strategies for coping with infidelity, that other women can emulate."
10 Practical Lessons for Betrayed Wives In an article entitled
Sandra Bullock's Strategy for Surviving Infidelity Can Help Other Women with Cheating Mates, Houston looks behind the scenes of the Sandra Bullock – Jesse James infidelity scandal, and uncovers 10 practical lessons that other betrayed wives can learn.
Houston's article on
Sandra Bullock's survival strategies covers the points below:
- the best way to clear your mind and sort out the facts
- how to keep from obsessing about his betrayal
- what to do about your cheating husband's mistress
- how to regain control of your life after learning about the affair.
- how your children can cushion the blow of betrayal, and help you heal
- the role of family and friends
- how not to let negative thoughts and emotions erode your mind
- how to deal with your desire for revenge
- how to focus on the future instead of dwelling on the past
Children Can Help Cushion the Blow "When it comes to dealing with infidelity, there's no one-size-fits-all, says Houston. "There are many practical ways to cope. People often overlook the role children can unknowingly play.
Houston continues, "No doubt, Sandra Bullock's newly adopted baby, and her 3 stepchildren, were instrumental in helping to soften the blow of Jesse Janes' betrayal."
"Adjusting to her role as a mother to little Louis Bardo Bullock, and trying to keep life as normal as possible for her 3 stepchildren (Jesse's kids), kept Sandra Bullock grounded, and her mind focused on positive pursuits."
Sandra Bullock as a Role Model for Betrayed Wives Houston points out that Sandra Bullock was the 4th wife to file for divorce from a cheating celebrity husband last month. See
Wives of 4 Cheating Celebrities File for Divorce This Month
Houston concludes, "The way Sandra chose to handle Jesse James' multiple infidelities shows other wives that they don't have to let their husband's betrayal limit or define their lives.
"Sandra Bullock is a true role model for betrayed wives in the way she maintained her dignity, held her head high, and proceeded to move forward with her life."
More Advice on Coping with Infidelity Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and the author of
Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs . Houston also writes on Celebrity Infidelity for Examiner.com.
For more practical advice on dealing with infidelity, or articles on the Sandra Bullock –Jesse James infidelity scandal from an infidelity expert's point of view, see the articles below:
For advice on coping with infidelity, see: Sandra Bullock's Strategy for Surviving Infidelity What NOT to Do If He's Cheating on You 5 Things You SHOULDN'T Do If He's Cheating on You (free tip sheet)
Be Careful Who You Tell That He's Cheating on You Will He Leave You for Her? What you Need to Know About Your Husband's Mistress and Why Are Wives to Blame When Husbands Cheat? Go or Stay? – How to Decide Whether to Give a Cheater a Second Chance (free tip sheet)
Why Revenge Cheating and Retaliatory Affairs Don't Work in Trying to Get Even With a Cheating Mate How to Legally and Financially Get Revenge on a Cheating Mate (free tip sheet)
For more about the Sandra Bullock – Jesse James infidelity scandal , or Jesse James' mistress, Michelle "Bombshell" McGee" from an infidelity expert's point of view, see: Wives of 4 Cheating Celebrities File for Divorce This Month Celebrity Infidelity Update - Sandra Bullock Files for Divorce from Jesse James and Adopts a Baby Boy Celebrity Infidelity Update – All the Latest Details on Cheating Celebrities in the News What Celebrity Mistresses are Doing to Extend Their 15 Minutes of Fame Celebrity Mistress Update – The Latest Report on Celebrity Mistresses in the News Could You Be Duped into Dating a Married Man Like Jesse James Duped Michelle Bombshell McGee? What Michelle McGee, Jamie Jungers and Other Celebrity Mistresses Are Doing to Make News Jesse James' Mistress, Michelle Bombshell McGee Appears Live in Las Vegas About Ruth Houston: Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on celebrity infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news.
She is the founder of
www.InfidelityAdvice.com , the author of
Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, and publishes the
Infidelity News and Views blog. Houston also writes on
Celebrity Infidelity for Examiner.com
To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or have her speak at your next event, call 718 592-6029 or e-mail
InfidelityExpert@gmail.com