Monday, October 15, 2007

The top 10 signs of infidelity can mislead you, if you?re trying to catch a cheating spouse or significant other.

According to infidelity expert Ruth Houston, founder of InfidelityAdvice.com, relying solely on the top 10 signs of infidelity often leads to the false accusation of innocent mates, while allowing cheating spouses to get away with their affairs.

How the Top 10 Signs of Infidelity Can Mislead

Elaborating on how the top 10 signs of infidelity can mislead, Houston, who has done extensive research on infidelity for almost 15 years says, ?An innocent spouse could very well display one or more of the top 10 signs of infidelity. But there could be logical reasons why those particular signs appeared -- reasons that have nothing to do with infidelity. On the other hand, a cheating spouse or significant other who carefully covers his or her tracks might not display any of the top 10 signs at all. After all, how hard is it to cover up 10 signs? I?ve consulted with countless men and women whose cheating spouses initially escaped detection because they covered up all the obvious ? or the so-called top 10 cheating signs.?

Knowing What to Look for is the Key

Houston, the author of a popular book on infidelity says, ?People put far too much stock in the top 10 signs of infidelity. Cheating spouses display numerous signs of infidelity, all of which can easily be found. Suspicious spouses seeking evidence of extramarital affairs, should put less emphasis on the top 10 signs of infidelity, and focus instead on 21 areas of concern. This is the only way to get an accurate assessment of whether or not your spouse or significant other is cheating without hiring a private investigator or using surveillance equipment. Houston describes these 21 areas in a special report entitled 21 Ways to Spot a Cheating Spouse. For your free copy, e-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with the words Cheating spouse- 21X in the subject line.

The 21 Areas of Concern

?Jumping to conclusions based solely on the presence or absence of a handful of signs can be a big mistake.? says Houston. ?Rather than rely on the top 10 signs of infidelity, focus on the 21 areas of concern below. Each one contains multiple telltale signs, and applies to cheating women, as well as cheating men. No two cheaters will display the exact same telltale signs.?

? Physical Appearance ? 76 signs

? How Your Spouse Relates to You ? 70 signs

? Conversational Clues ? 70 signs

? Work Habits ? 39 signs

? Day-to-Day Behavior ? 92 signs

? Financial Affairs ? 52 signs

? Travel ? 27 signs

? Personality Changes ? 36 signs

? Absences ? 39 signs

? Telephone Tip-offs ? 76 signs

? Car Clues ? 40 signs

? Sex ? 37 signs

? Eating Habits ? 31 signs

? Tastes and Smells ? 21 signs

? Invasion of Your Home ? 22 signs

? Gifts ? 19 signs

? Computer Use ? 30 signs

? Cell Phones and Pagers ? 28 signs

? Physical Evidence ? 32 signs

? Behavior Around Members of the Opposite Sex ? 71 signs

? Accidental Slip-Ups and Disclosures ? 57 signs

These 21 areas of interest correspond to the 21 major categories of infidelity signs covered in Houston?s book Is He Cheating on You ? 829 Telltale Signs - the only book on the market that lists practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. Despite the title, most of the signs in the book apply to cheating women, as well as cheating men. Since the signs are listed by category, it?s easy to find the signs that apply to your mate.

Look for Multiple Signs of Infidelity

Houston points out that signs of infidelity seldom appear in isolation. ?Cheaters always display multiple telltale signs. If your spouse or significant other is really cheating, you?ll find clusters of telltale signs from several of the 21 areas all at once. It?s impossible for a cheater to cover up every single sign. Where there?s one sign, there are usually dozens of corroborating signs just waiting to be found. Since most of the signs are subtle, and no two cheaters display the same signs, knowing what to look for is the key. Searching for multiple signs of infidelity from the 21 areas of concern will keep you from falsely accusing your mate, while ensuring that a spouse or significant other who is really cheating, will definitely be exposed.?

FREE Report on 21 Ways to Spot a Cheating Spouse

For a free copy of Houston?s special report describing these 21 areas of concern and the kind of telltale signs each category of interest contains, e-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with the words Cheating spouse- 21X in the subject line.

About Ruth Houston:

Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and the author of ?Is He Cheating on You?-829 Telltale Signs?. Ruth has been quoted inUSA Today, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Los Angeles Times and numerous others, and has been a guest on The Today Show, CNN, Fox News, NBC News, and over 320 radio and TV shows worldwide. For more information about infidelity, cheating spouses or extramarital affairs, visit InfidelityAdvice.com or Ruth Houston?s Infidelity Blog at http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com To interview Ruth Houston, call 718 592-6039 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com